Every year, we take one Sunday to look into the future of our church and what God is calling us to do next. Well, todayâs the day for 2019 and I am excited to share with you guys what God has been stirring in my heart.
But before we get into the future, let me give you a little history.
Ten years ago, when Beth and I had only been married a few months, my dad asked if we wanted to help him start a church. He wanted me to be the worship leader. And I enthusiastically said yes.
After all, as a 19-year-old guy, I thought I had it all together and would be the best worship leader around. It didnât take long before I found out I didnât know it all. Actually, I really didnât know much of anything.
If you would have come to church back then, worship would have been unbearably loud and weâd be singing songs simply because I liked them. Thankfully, I grew up along the way and I owe a big part of that to my dad.
In our second year of the church, my dad sent me to Bible school. I didnât really want to go, but he didnât give me much of an option. And now I know why.
Who I am and where I am today is a result of the two years I spent in Bible school letting the Word of God transform my life.
Now, there were some other things that my dad did that I didnât like at the time.
You see, I was quite opinionated and thought that everyone needed to know what I thought. So I was always telling dad what we should do differently at the church.
Actually, I pushed him so hard that one day he sat me down and told me, âThatâs enough. You either hush and stop sharing your opinions, or you can step out of leadership.â
Seems harsh, right? I remember going home and crying that day out of frustration and even telling Beth we were going to leave the church.
But that conversation shaped me. It shaved off one of my many rough edges. The thing is, not very many people are bold enough to call you out in an area where you need to grow. But thank God, my dad doesnât hold back.
He was willing to sacrifice by putting our relationship temporarily at odds to help me grow and become the man I am supposed to be.
So, dad, thank you for investing in me. Thank you for not taking the easy way out. And you didnât just do it for me, you invested in this entire church all along the way. We wouldnât be where we are without you.
My dad, Mark Young, is the founding pastor of this church and led us for over ten years. Most believe that the founding pastor has to stay put until he dies, but this was never Godâs plan for my dad. And my dad knew this before he even started the church.
There were several years that my dad was looking for the next lead pastor of our church because he knew it was time to pass the baton. Everyone would look to me, but I would just say âno wayâ. Because at the time, there was nothing in me that felt called to pastor.
It all changed towards the end of 2017. Itâs like God opened a new door within me and I began to see the future of our church. I didnât hold the vision for the church up to this point, but all of a sudden, I could see it clearly.
The only problem was, I couldnât see myself as a traditional pastor. In America, we have an idea of what a pastor should be and I just couldnât fit it.
And one day while I was hiking, the Lord spoke within me and said, âWho says you have pastor the church like everyone else does?â The question kind of stunned me and I couldnât really come up with a good answer.
But this one question made me realize that God didnât call me to be like someone else. His called me to be who he created me to be. And thatâs what released me to accept the call to lead this church.
So here we are. Iâve been leading the church for a little over a year now and I wouldnât trade it for anything. And as promised, I donât meet Americaâs expectations for a pastor.
Iâm young. I wear a man bun when Iâm not at church. I only speak about 50% of the time and then let our other gifted teachers and preachers bring us the Word the rest of the time.
But hereâs the deal. I love being here with you guys and I love preparing messages from the Word that lead you to your best life. And I love getting to empower our leadership team to do what God has called them to do.
Seriously, I was made for this. And every week that goes by, I get more and more excited for what God is going to do through this church.
Weâve been in a season of preparation for the past year. The Holy Spirit has been helping us grow in our love for each other so He can bring us together in unity. And now that weâre united, weâre ready for the harvest.
NoLimits Church is now ready to lead people to Jesus. And weâre not just talking about a few people here and there, weâre talking about a harvest. People who donât know Jesus are going to find Him through us. And their eternity is going to be changed forever.
And hereâs the coolest part. Itâs not like we are going to lead them to Jesus and then leave them to figure it all out on their own. No, we are going to walk with them every step of the way and lead them to their best life.
Guys, this isnât just something that I hope happens. I have a deep expectation in my spirit that this is what is going to happen. Itâs like God has let me peer into the future and Iâm confident weâre going to see it come to pass.
So all of that is motivating and inspiring, but my analytical people out there are like, âOkay, sounds great, but how do we do that?â
You guys should know by know that I canât preach a message without giving you some steps to make it happen. So let me show you exactly how we are going to bring people to Jesus and lead them to their best life.
There are actually four steps in our spiritual journey. And these are the four steps we are going to use to bring people to Jesus and lead them to their best life.
The Apostle Paul is the one who introduces us to these four steps:
Ephesians 1:16-19 NLT - I pray for you constantly, asking God, the glorious Father of our Lord Jesus Christ, to give you spiritual wisdom and insight so that you might grow in your knowledge of God.
The first step in everyoneâs spiritual journey is to know God. Like, you canât just know about God, you need to know who God is and what Heâs done for you. You need a close relationship with God.
Ephesians 1:16-19 NLT - I pray that your hearts will be flooded with light...
Before we come to Jesus, our lives are full of darkness. Because of our past and bad choices, weâre junked up with regrets, anger, disappointment and all kinds of other nonsense.
So, the second part of your spiritual journey is when the light bulb turns on inside of you. Itâs when you find freedom from your old life. Your heart is flooded with light and all the darkness disappears.
Ephesians 1:16-19 NLT - ...so that you can understand the confident hope he has given to those he calledâhis holy people who are his rich and glorious inheritance.
Once you know God and find freedom, youâre ready to step into your calling. This is when you discover why youâre here! And you take on this confidence of knowing, âI was made for this.â
The thing is, most of us are searching for fulfillment in the things this world has to offer because we havenât gotten to this place yet. Because in order to live your life fulfilled, you need confidence in what God has called you to do.
Ephesians 1:16-19 NLT - ...so that you can understand the confident hope he has given to those he calledâhis holy people who are his rich and glorious inheritance.
The final step in our spiritual journey is when we all come together as a group of people who know God, where everyone is living in freedom and is confident in their purpose. Can you imagine?
Can you imagine how pleased God would be with a church like this? Can you imagine the difference we could make in our community and around the world?
Weâre going to unpack each of these four steps, but first I want to read this scripture in the Message translation to help drive it home:
Ephesians 1:16-19 MSG - I ask the God of our Master, Jesus Christ, the God of glory to make you intelligent and discerning in knowing him personally, your eyes focused and clear, so that you can see exactly what it is he is calling you to do, grasp the immensity of this glorious way of life he has for his followers, oh, the utter extravagance of his work in us who trust himâendless energy, boundless strength!
Alright, letâs dig into each one of these because this is the four-step process we are going to use to help people live their best life. Weâre going to lead them to Jesus and then we are going to guide them through this journey.
Weâre not talking about knowing God mentally. Like this isnât how you know who the president is, or you know who the movie star is. No, this is a close, relational type of know. Just like you know your best friend.
The sad thing is, many people live their entire lives knowing about God, and they may even have perfect attendance at church, but they donât know God. And hereâs how serious this is:
Matthew 7:22-23 NKJV - Many will say to Me in that day, âLord, Lord, have we not prophesied in Your name, cast out demons in Your name, and done many wonders in Your name?â And then I will declare to them, âI never knew you.â
You know the kind of people Jesus is talking about here? All those people who love to keep rules and brag about the good stuff they do. And they probably even put Jesusâ name on it and even do these things through the church.
And theyâre so awesome they get to play sin police and tell everyone else what their doing wrong so that they can elevate themselves as some kind of superior Christian whoâs got it all figured out.
People who act like this donât really know God. Because those who really know God are full of love. And love doesnât let you act that way. Jesus fills you with compassion and joy and patience and kindness.
So it doesnât matter if you are someone whoâs living a life of sin or someone whoâs trying to make themselves look good by doing everything right. Both ends of the spectrum need to know God in a real, relational way.
So, how do we help people know God here at NoLimits?
This isnât the only way we help people know God, but Sunday Services are the primary way we help people know God.
Most church goers see Sunday services as something that exists for them. Itâs my experience, itâs my time to get what I need from the church. But we see it a bit differently here at NoLimits.
Sundays are not for me, theyâre for the people who are coming to know God for the first time. Or for the first time in a long time.
In other words, the reason we come to church on Sundays is not for ourselves. Weâre here for everyone else. Thatâs why we serve in kids ministry, or on the hospitality team, or on the worship team.
Many of you know that our worship leader, Dillon, is actually my brother. Heâs eight years younger than me, and thinking back to when he was a little kid just makes me chuckle. He was a lot of fun to mess with.
Growing up, we had a pretty calm life which I am so thankful for. I have awesome parents. And I remember this one normal day when Dillon was about three years old, we weâre all doing our thing and we noticed Dillon was missing.
He was a fairly ornery kid, so this was nothing new. So I started hollering his name and looking around the house and⊠nothing. After a few minutes of this, I enlisted the rest of the house to help because I was starting to get nervous.
We were all looking around the house, looking out in the yard. We had a creek that went down the middle of our property and we walked the creek and still, nothing.
By this point, we were knocking on the neighbors' doors asking if they had seen him. Nobody has seen him, but they joined in on the search. Because, even though Dillon was ornery, everyone loved him.
So here we are, half the neighborhood had dropped everything to find this three-year-old kid. Like none of us even cared what was going on around us. All we could think about was finding Dillon.
Itâs in moments like this that you donât even realize if you have to use the restroom or not. You donât pay attention as to if you are hungry or not. And you donât even care about the other people that are around you.
You are zeroed in and focused on the one person that is missing. In that moment, finding them is the only thing that matters.
This is the exact feeling that Jesus had when He said this:
Luke 15:7 NLT - There is more joy in heaven over one lost sinner who repents and returns to God than over ninety-nine others who are righteous and havenât strayed away!
In other words, if Jesus had to chose, Heâd leave the found to go find the lost. And this is exactly why we have a service every Sunday. Because itâs our best opportunity to help people know God.
So, if all this time youâve come to church on Sunday with yourself on your mind, I want you to remember this story. I want you to remember how important it is to God that his lost children come to know Him.
From this point forward, come to church expecting that the lost are going to get saved. Come to church ready to be the person that extends love and joy and draws people into the presence of God.
Understand that our Sunday services arenât designed to reach you. Theyâre designed to reach the lost. So if you donât like how loud it is, or how friendly it is, or whatever, Iâm telling you right now, itâs not about you.
Before we go on, you might want to know what happened with Dillon. You can obviously tell found him because he is here today. Turns out, he was playing hide and seek without telling anyone. He hid in the laundry basket and fell asleep, hence why he didnât respond to us calling his name.
So the primary way we help people know God is through our Sunday services. And since our Sunday services are primarily to reach the lost, weâve got to have services that lost people love to attend.
The cool thing about this is, when we have services that lost people love to attend, youâll love to attend them too.
No longer will you care about how loud it is or how much you hate that song or how rowdy the kids are in class today. Youâre just going to be stoked that the person sitting next to you is getting an opportunity to know God.
How do we create services that lost people love to attend?
We believe church should be enjoyable. It should be something that you canât wait to get to and where you are sad when itâs over.
Psalms 122:1 NLT - I was glad when they said to me, âLet us go to the house of the Lord.
This is why we have coffee, great music, and itâs also why I put a joke or two in my messages to make yâall laugh. Funny thing is, sometimes I didnât even know it was a joke. Yâall just laugh at something I thought was serious.
But, having an enjoyable experience isnât enough on itâs own. You also need:
We believe church should be a place where people experience Godâs presence. In the end, the music, the lights, the coffee, none of it matters if Godâs presence didnât impact someoneâs life.
Thatâs why we pray before service. Thatâs why we have at least one song that brings us into that moment of worship where Godâs presence just rests on this room. Thatâs why we give time at the end of our messages for people to have a conversation with God.
Itâs why weâre willing to let God hijack any one of our services. If a move of healing sweeps into this room, you better know we are going to follow it instead of following the plan.
And although this happens, the primary way that God leads these services is actually by leading me and the team when we prepare these services, which leads me into the next guideline for our Sunday services:
We believe church should be a place where people learn how the Bible applies to their daily lives. Thatâs why our messages are always relatable with action steps that you can take home and apply tomorrow.
Thatâs why we plan our messages in series because you have a better chance of grabbing on to a Biblical concept when we stick on it for several weeks and look at it from a few different angles.
Hereâs the fourth thing that guides our church services:
We believe that church should be a place where people can accept Jesus as their Lord and Savior. So every Sunday, every service, regardless of what we talk about, weâre going to give people an opportunity to receive Jesus.
So, if you were wondering why I work my way into a call for salvation at the end of every service, now you know. The whole reason weâre here is for people to find God. And every Sunday, weâre going to give them that opportunity.
So, if church isnât about you, what does all this have to do with you?
Well, I want you to join me in this mission. The best chance we have at helping people know God is for you to bring your unchurched, far-from-God friends to church. Thatâs your part to play!
You donât have to bring someone with you every Sunday. But there should be several Sundays throughout the year that you have an unchurched, far-from-God person sitting next to you.
And you know what? Those are going to be the most exciting services for you. Youâll be sitting there all antsy, praying that your friend experiences God and decides to give their life to Jesus.
Because hereâs the deal. You have a circle of influence that I donât have. Iâve been called to reach those around me. Youâve been called to reach those around you. And when we all do our part, itâs going to blow our minds.
If you're nervous about inviting your unchurched friends to church, let me give you four things to help you out.
Your first step is to accept what we just talked about. Accept the fact that your family, your coworkers, your neighbors are your responsibility. God put you in their lives to help them know God.
You're not waiting for someone else to come along and reach them, you are going to reach them. And itâs important to you because you realize that this is about their eternity.
You see, when we get nervous that weâll get made fun of, or that weâll make someone upset by inviting them to church, all weâre thinking about is the here and now.
But we have to get to a point where putting our relationship temporarily at odds is worth it because eternity hangs in the balance. We have an opportunity to lead people to Jesus and change their eternity from hell to heaven.
When we think of sharing Jesus, often our minds go to the person walking the streets of downtown Tulsa telling people they're going to hell without Jesus. Well, this probably isnât the best approach.
People arenât looking for a debate. They're not looking for you to tell them what is wrong with their lives. No, they are looking for real relationships. They want people in their lives who truly care about them.
Itâs interesting, we often feel like sharing Jesus is a rush job. And because we are in such a hurry, we actually end up word vomiting on someone when we try to share Jesus.
Let me encourage you to relax. These are real people who need real relationships. And all of this can happen in a normal conversation. Actually, the Holy Spirit will open the door for you in a way that is seamless.
Telling other people what is wrong in their life, or arguing about the Bible is not what leads people to Jesus. But, sharing what Jesus has done in your life, now that is something that works.
The Bible says we are witnesses for Jesus. And a witness in the court system is not someone who tells another personâs story. No, they tell their own story. And thatâs the best way we can lead people to Jesus.
Building a relationship and sharing your story are both part of this process, but at some point you need to ask them to do something. You can either lead them to Jesus on your own or you can invite them to church.
The temptation at this point is to stay quiet because you feel like asking is going to be invasive or inconvenient for the other person. But, you know what? I bet there is someone in your circle right now that is just waiting to be asked.
Like, they want to come to church with you. That want what youâve found in Jesus. But theyâre not going to ask you for it, theyâre simply waiting for you to ask them.
Sure, they might say no. But always remember, they are not really saying no. They are just saying ânot right nowâ and youâre going to get another opportunity to ask them and they might just say yes next time.
So, step one in the spiritual journey is all about knowing God. And the primary way we help people know God is through our Sunday services.
And they way we get unchurched people to our services is when everyone takes responsibility for their circle of influence and brings them to church so they can know God.
I know this first step took awhile to get through, but donât get nervous because the other three arenât going to take that long. So, letâs get to the next step:
Once you know God, the next step in your spiritual journey is to get rid of all that stuff from your past. Itâs time to step into freedom. And surprisingly, the way God intends this to happen is through relationships.
Let me show this to you in two places:
James 5:16 NLT - Confess your sins to each other and pray for each other so that you may be healed.
Hebrews 3:13 NIV - But encourage one another daily ⊠so that none of you may be hardened by sinâs deceitfulness.
So, do we help people find freedom here at NoLimits?
The goal is for Sunday services to get bigger because there are a whole lot of people out there that need to know God. But, we also need the church to get smaller so you can have real relationships.
Small groups are where we build those relationships. Itâs where you get a group of people close enough so that the others in your group notice when you're hurting and help you find healing.
We believe life change happens in the context of relationships. So, small groups have one simple purpose: to bring people together. You need these relationships. I need these relationships.
If you only come to Sunday services, you are probably never going to feel very connected to those around you. Itâs just too large of a gathering with too much going on for you to really connect with others.
Small groups solve this problem because there are only around eight people in your group. And thereâs plenty of open time in these meetings for you to really get to know people and even share your heart.
When we are on an island living life by ourselves, itâs really easy to get off track. But when you have a group of people around you who genuinely care about you, they are going to love you back to wholeness.
They care too much about you to let you go left field. So they are going to reach out a helping hand and pull you back on track.
When I told you that Sunday services are primarily designed to reach the lost, you may have wondered, âWhat about spiritual growth? What about discipleship?â
Well, here it is. Small groups is where growth happens. Throughout the year, weâll have groups on prayer, weâll have Bible studies, weâll even help you get out of debt. Spiritual growth and discipleship happens best in a small group.
Before we move on to the next step, let me give you a brief overview of how our small groups work.
The topic of the small group is not the purpose of the small group. The purpose is relationships. Thatâs why we want people to gather based on what they enjoy and what is important to them.
So, youâll see interest-based groups throughout the year like an entrepreneurs group, or a hiking group, or a Saturday game night group. Youâll also see groups for men, women, marriage, students, prayer, and outreach.
Life flows in seasons, and we want to make it easy for you to be in the right small group for you in each season. This is why our groups stop and start three times a year in what we refer to as âsemestersâ.
Our hope is for every person at NoLimits to be connected to a small group in every semester. Actually, we would love to see just as many, if not more, people attending small groups as our Sunday services.
We all have something to offer others and hosting a small group might just be the best way for you to do that. If you think youâd like to host a group, just let us know and weâll get you all set up.
Alright, letâs move on to step three:
Once you know God and have found freedom, you are fully prepared and ready to step into the assignment that God had for you. The problem is, you may just not know where to find it.
Thereâs a lot of Christians out there who know God and have found freedom, but now they are wandering. They're frustrated because the feel unfilled and itâs all because they havenât discovered the specific assignment God had for them.
So, how do we help people discover their purpose at NoLimits?
This is a piece of our church that weâve been missing all along. Weâve never had a step-by-step guide for people to discover their purpose, but weâre fixing that problem with the Growth Track which starts next month.
Itâs a simple four step process that happens over four weeks and is repeated every month. So, first Sundays of each month will be step one of the Growth Track, second Sundays will be step two, and so on.
Let me give you a brief overview of what happens in each step:
My message today is pretty much what everyone will get in Step 1 of the Growth Track. Theyâll learn about our church, theyâll learn how to progress in their spiritual journey, and theyâll have an opportunity to join our church.
Everyone needs to be a part of a church, and this is an opportunity for people to make a decision one way or the other. Because the last thing we want is for people to be here if theyâre called to be somewhere else. And stepONE will give them everything they need to know to make that decision.
This is when we dive into the details of your personality, discover your gifts, and help you find your purpose in life and your best fit in ministry.
Every single person has a purpose and sometimes you just need a little help finding it. Thatâs what step 2 is all about. Youâll walk away with clarity on what God has put you on this planet to do.
The word leader simply means âinfluencerâ. And we all have influence in different areas of our life, including here at church.
Whether you identify as a leader or not, stepTHREE of the Growth Track will help you identify those areas in your life where you have influence and help you refine your skills so you lead those well.
We all have a part to play here at church. Whether its kids ministry, the hospitality team, a small group leader, or on the worship team, there is a specific team where you belong.
So, in stepFOUR of the Growth Track, we help you take everything you discovered in stepTWO and apply it by finding the right team for you.
This isnât about us finding more volunteers. This is about helping you find the team at church where you show up knowing, âI was made for this.â
So, Growth Track is how we help people discover purpose which leads into the final step of our spiritual journey:
How do we help people make a difference here at NoLimits?
Most people would call this volunteering, but we call it the Dream Team because we want you on a team that connects with your dream.
When you show up to serve on Sundays, or when you go on an outreach activity, or when you lead your small group, we want you to always have that thought in the back of your mind, âI was made for this.â
So, the Dream Team is simply all the teams at church that give you the opportunity to put your gifts to work and make a difference in the lives of those around you.
In stepFOUR of the Growth Track, we connect you with your dream team and guide you through the steps of getting plugged in to that team.
We help people know God through our Sunday services. We help people find freedom through our Small Groups. We help people discover purpose with the Growth Track. We help people make a difference with the Dream Team.
I hope this is starting to make sense to everyone, because this is the future of our church. Weâve had many of these pieces established for years but they were just waiting for us to put them together in a beautiful puzzle.
And now that we have a step-by-step journey for people to follow, I believe that God is going to lead the lost into our church. Heâs had a harvest ready for us. Heâs just been waiting for us to get ready for them.
There may just be a strong pull on the inside of you because itâs time. Itâs time for you to surrender your life to God and receive a new life from Jesus.
You know youâre not that good at managing your life anyways. Itâs time to give Jesus the control of your life. Itâs time to receive forgiveness and get your past washed away.
If thatâs you, if you are ready to do that, I want you to say the following prayer out loud. And when you do, Jesus is going to wash you clean and give you new life. Heâs going to fill you with joy, peace and purpose.
âJesus, Iâve been living without you and I donât want to do that anymore. Iâve done a lot of things wrong and I need your forgiveness. I accept Your love and grace for me and ask that You would be my Lord. Thank you for making me new. Thank you for washing away my past. I hand my life over to you and ask that youâd help me walk out your plan for my life.â
