
In my last message, we discovered that God is all about abundance. The first commandment He gave us was to âmultiplyâ!
We also learned that, as believers, we have a responsibility to live in abundance. Itâs not something thatâs for some people and not others. Itâs Godâs plan for each and every one of us.
Now that the Word has convinced you that abundance is for you, letâs talk about the things that are going to keep you from it. Because as you know, the enemy is going to try to keep you from the things of God.
But the good news is, we can uncover his sorry plan and overcome it with the Word of God.
1 Timothy 6:6-8 NLT - True godliness with contentment is itself great wealth. After all, we brought nothing with us when we came into the world, and we canât take anything with us when we leave it. So if we have enough food and clothing, let us be content.
When reading this scripture, you may imagine an impoverished life. One where you have just enough food to survive and maybe a few changes of clothes so you donât have to walk around stinky or naked.
Considering weâve been taught Christians are supposed to be poor, this scripture seems to confirm it. But, whatâs interesting is that the original Greek word for content (arkeo) means âto be possessed of unfailing strengthâ.
Iâve never known someone living in poverty to appear to be possessed of unfailing strength. When I lived with barely enough to pay the bills, my life sure wasnât displaying strength. Actually, I felt quite insecure.
Letâs continue on with this section of scripture so the truth can really come alive.
1 Timothy 6:9-10 NLT - But people who long to be rich fall into temptation and are trapped by many foolish and harmful desires that plunge them into ruin and destruction. For the love of money is the root of all kinds of evil. And some people, craving money, have wandered from the true faith and pierced themselves with many sorrows.
So this is contrast of the content person we are supposed to be.
Youâd think people who devote their lives to money, like this, would end up with a lot of it. But according to this scripture, it just ends in ruin and destruction. Not a good destination if you ask me.
So, whatâs the point here? Does God want us to live in poverty? No. Hereâs the whole point of this scripture:
In other words, our contentment should in no way be tied to money.
Yet, we tend to put our contentment somewhere in the future when we have more money. âIâll be happy when I have a bigger house.â âIâll be happy when I have a brand new car.â âIâll be happy when my kitchen is renovated.â
But what we have to realize is, itâs these very things that rob us of Godâs plan for abundance in our lives. He needs us to get to a place where we are content, not because we have a lot of money, but because we are rooted and grounded in Him.
When we were a few months away from having our second baby, Beth and I realized the need for a different home. The house we were in had plenty of room to raise a family, but the problem was, I also ran my business out of the house. Having my office right next to the kid's bedroom just wasnât working out.
So, we found the perfect house where the upstairs could be my office and the downstairs could be where we lived, providing much-needed separation between the two spaces. And it was seated on this plot of land that I seriously believe God designed just for me.
Only problem was, the price was a little out of my comfort zone. I ran the numbers over and over, and it fit in the budget, but I can be a little bit of a tightwad. So, I was balancing out, do I let the business suffer or do I invest in a better space so my business can flourish.
Before putting in an offer, I remember asking Beth, âIf we get this house and for some reason down the line are unable to pay for it, will it be devastating for you to have to move to something smaller?â
I didnât know it at the time, but this is a question God was using to measure our source of contentment. Did it come from the home that we lived in, or was it rooted in Him?
We learned earlier that contentment is synonymous with unfailing strength.
When our contentment is sourced in God, not in what we own or how big our bank account is, our life is a walking billboard of strength. That in itself is a life of abundance.
Donât misunderstand. This scripture does not say that Christians canât live in financial abundance. But, if your contentment comes from money or you are waiting to be content until you have more money, thatâs probably the very thing that is keeping you from financial abundance.
Pursue contentment in Christ and financial abundance will be a side effect.
I Thessalonians 4:11-12 NKJV - ...aspire to lead a quiet life, to mind your own business, and to work with your own hands, as we commanded you, that you may walk properly toward those who are outside (unbelievers), and that you may lack nothing.
Have you ever noticed how life tends to be a comparison game?
When someone asks what you do for a living, in most cases, they just want to figure out if they have a better job than you or not. The most intense game of comparison revolves around parents talking about their kids. âMy kids plays football and makes straight Aâs. What does yours do?â âMy baby started crawling at 6 months, has yourâs started yet?â
This reminds me of a story of two siblings. One was always ahead of what doctors deem as ânormal developmentâ. They were at the top of the growth charts, they talked early. They even knew the entire alphabet and could write several letters by the time they were two and a half.
The other seemed to be falling behind. Their weight kept falling lower and lower on the growth chart. It was time for them to crawl, according to what is ânormalâ, but they just didnât seem interested. They were content to just chill.
This is the story of my two girls, Leanna and Adalynn.
Beth and I were just having a discussion about how hard it is not to compare Adalynnâs growth to Leannaâs. Weâll catch ourselves looking back at pictures and videos of Leanna when she was Adalynnâs age and realizing how much faster Leanna seemed to progress.
For example, at 9 months old, Leanna was in 18-month clothes. Adalynn, on the other hand, is in 9-month clothes with room to spare.
During our discussion, Beth and I realized that this is our chance to learn not to compare one kid with the other. Every one of our kids will have their own strengths. Every kid will be different, and this should be celebrated, not used for comparison.
With this in mind, letâs go back and read the first part of that verse.
I Thessalonians 4:11 NKJV - ...aspire to lead a quiet life, to mind your own business, and to work with your own hands.
The is explaining a life where we donât measure ourselves by other people. Because, when we compare ourselves, we limit what God wants to do in our life.
We tend to look to our parents, or television, or other people to show us how we should live, but the only thing we should be looking at is the Word of God.
Comparison tricks us into thinking Godâs blessings are in limited supply. When they win, you lose, right? Comparison also pulls us in to what is going on around us. If thereâs a recession, then you have to participate, right? If your grandpa died of heart disease, then the same thing is going to happen to you, right?
No! We have a choice. We can live according to the worldâs systems, tagging along with their recession, accepting the flu because everyone else gets it, or we can live according to Godâs system.
Heaven doesnât go through recessions. Heaven doesnât have a flu season. In Heaven, they donât hand down heart disease and cancer. The problem is, we believe what the news says more than we believe what the Word of God says.
So, when thereâs a recession, we cut back our giving because we might need that money. But, according to Godâs system, this is the worst thing we can do.
Godâs system says you have to sow to reap a harvest. The worldâs system says you have to hoard so you donât run out. So if a recession hits, the best way for you to step out of the worlds system and into Godâs is to increase your giving. Thatâs a bonus tip.
Remember how we just talked about the importance of contentment? Well, hereâs whatâs interesting.
If youâre busy comparing yourself to others, when they get a better car than you, itâs going to steal your contentment.
And when you lose your contentment, you step out of Godâs plan for abundance and into the worldâs attempt at abundance, and all it ends in is a crapload of debt, insecurity, and disappointment.
Comparison is a trap and there is nothing beneficial about it.
Refuse to measure yourself against others. Donât allow yourself to feel inferior around those who think they are better than you.
I donât care if they live in a house 10x the size of yours, or if they are a successful business owner, or doctor, or multi-millionaire. You walk up to them knowing that you are just as valuable as they are.
It doesnât matter if they believe it or not, you believe it because itâs what the Word of God says about you.
On the flip side, donât even entertain the thought that you are better than someone else. Thereâs always going to be someone who has less that you or is missing a skill that you have. But, you are not better than them.
And hereâs why we mind our own business, work with our own hands, and stop the comparison game:
I Thessalonians 4:12 NKJV - ...that you may walk properly toward those who are outside (unbelievers), and that you may lack nothing.
A study by Pew Charitable Trusts found that 8 out of 10 Americans hold some form of debt. 7 out of 10 believe that debt is necessary, but would prefer not to have it. Yet, 85% of those with debt use it to live beyond their means.
Get this: Although most Americans consider debt a necessity in their own lives, they view it as a negative force in the lives of others.
The bottom line is, we want stuff we canât afford. And debt allows us to get it - and get it right now.
Remember our talk on contentment regardless of our financial state? It is now becoming clear that all the prosperity thieves we are talking about today lead back to a lack of contentment.
The biggest wealth killer today is the beloved car payment.
We LOVE our cars, and we LOVE to take out loans so we can get the car we want. After all, everyone has a car payment, right?
The average car payment is $475 on a six-year loan. Then, before we actually pay it off, we trade it in for a massive loss on what we originally paid for it and then take out another loan on another new car. And the payment continues.
But, if we would have invested the $475 into a good growth stock mutual fund, you would have over $100k in 10 years. Keep it going for 20 years and youâd have $470k. What about 30 years? $1.6 million!
Instead, over that 30 years, the average American would have financed about 4 cars, totaling around $104k plus an additional $50-60k in interest. In other words, you left about $1.6 million on the table at the end of this 30 years because you decided to drive new cars instead of investing. As Dave Ramsey would say, âI hope you like the car.â
Proverbs 22:7 NLT - Just as the rich rule the poor, so the borrower is servant to the lender.
We go into debt to try to find contentment. And in the process, we give up our freedom. The worst thing is, what we went into debt for may bring a few moments of the feel-goods, but it doesnât last long. In the end, itâs a lose-lose.
So how do you get out of debt?
First step is to stop adding more debt. Cut up the credit cards, commit to only buying cars with cash, donât take out loans for furniture or anything else. If you donât have cash to buy it, donât buy it.
To pay off your existing debt, go to nolimits.church/debtsnowball. This will lead you to an article by Dave Ramsey that will walk you through the best process for getting out of debt.
Proverbs 21:5 AMP - The plans of the diligent lead surely to abundance and advantage, But everyone who acts in haste (unnecessary, thoughtless, quick action) comes surely to poverty.
The Hebrew word for âplansâ also means: curious work, imagination, invention.
The Hebrew word for âdiligentâ also means: determination, sharp-pointed, a trench that's been dug out.
In other words, the curious work of those who stay focused will surely lead them to abundance and advantage.
On the other hand, those who just live life on a whim, buying whatever they want, jumping from job to job, end up in poverty. This may be a normal thing to do, but it is not Godâs plan for you life.
Creative Ideas + Intense Focus = Abundance
God wants to pour creative ideas into you. He wants your work to be full of purpose, full of curiosity and imagination, and fully focused.
Problem is, we get busy working jobs we donât really like to pay for things we canât afford. All because that is what everyone else is doing.
In Andrew Wommackâs book, Donât Limit God, he says, âIf youâre not excited about getting up on Monday and going to work, or if you get excited on Friday because you donât have to work the next two days, you havenât found Godâs will for your life.â
The worldâs system says youâve made it when you get an 8-5 job, Monday-Friday, 2-weeks of vacation pay. It doesnât matter if you like it or not, itâs just what we do.
In the worldâs system, you have to trade in your dreams for this so-called security in a steady paycheck.
During my first year at Rhema Bible School, I realized the importance of Beth attending as well. At this point, she was the sole provider of our home, holding down a really stable 8-5 job.
We met for lunch one day and I pretty much told her she was going to quit her job and go to Rhema when the next school year started. She thought I was crazy, but I didnât really give her a choice. I felt that strongly about it.
One day I was at the church cleaning when we were a mile down the street and I noticed a new business was going in next to us. I walked over there and asked the owner if he was looking for any part-time work.
That day, I got Beth a job that would work with her school schedule and even pay more per hour than she was receiving at the time. It was like God orchestrated the whole thing. She quit her job, started the new job and started school. She even ended up liking the new job better than her previous job!
And then one day, Beth walked it to work after school and her boss said the business was closing and to never come back. Turns out, her boss was embezzling money and the IRS found out.
Wait. Wasnât this the ideal job that God has orchestrated? How could God let this happen to two people who were in Bible school?
But you know what we learned from this situation? That the worldâs system only provides a false sense of security, yet they ask you to give up on your dreams, what you are called to do, in return.
Sounds like a crappy deal to me. So how do you get out?
Stop the unnecessary, thoughtless, and quick action. Take your quieted mind before God and ask Him to pour in His plan for you life.
Take time to imagine the type of work that brings you fulfillment, peace and joy. Because this is the work God has called you to.
Then, get determined and focused. Keep doing what you are called to do and trust God for the provision. Even when it seems like it is not working, stay focused, donât stop.
Remember what we just read: The curious work of those who stay focused will surely lead them to abundance and advantage.
When youâre doing something you are not called to do just to earn a paycheck, you lack contentment. So you buy things you canât afford to try to find contentment and all you end up with is a load of debt.
You compare yourself to others, hoping this will make you feel better about yourself, and just end up with more discontentment.
And a lack of contentment is the very things that keeps us from experiencing abundance.
To bring it all together, letâs re-read the scripture we started with.
1 Timothy 6:6-10 NLT - True godliness with contentment is itself great wealth. After all, we brought nothing with us when we came into the world, and we canât take anything with us when we leave it. So if we have enough food and clothing, let us be content.
Be content regardless of your financial state. Itâs a choice and one that you will have to make daily until it becomes a new way of life.
Contentment is a prerequisite to abundance. You have to find contentment through Christ first before God can pour abundance into your life.